https://www.reddit.com/r/programming/comments/xl4k9/why_software_development_methodologies_suck/

https://www.thoughtworks.com/insights/blog/why-software-development-methodologies-suck

https://continuousdelivery.com/2012/08/why-software-development-methodologies-suck/

https://typicalprogrammer.com/why-dont-software-development-methodologies-work

funny, with interesting analogues

https://zwischenzugs.com/2017/10/15/my-20-year-experience-of-software-development-methodologies/

https://www.reddit.com/r/programming/comments/2luryq/the_leprechauns_of_software_engineering/

book leprechaunes